Relationship Breakdown
When Miss Piggy and I first got together it was great and we were serious about being together for many years to come. We were at similar stages in our lives and wanted to follow a similar path moving forward.
However, my predicament of bankruptcy soon began to conflict with Miss Piggy’s needs of fun, marriage and children. An almost inevitable torrent of confrontations followed with neither person able or willing to give way and both feeling completely unsupported by each other. There was only one outcome for the sake of both our sanities.
I will be the first to admit that during the period of the failing business and the proceeding bankruptcy I was relatively unsupportive to Miss Piggy and her needs. Doing what I thought was right, I paid less attention to her and more attention to the business. After all, the last thing I wanted to do was put her through bankruptcy.
There would be times when I would shelter Miss Piggy in fear of more panic and confrontation and there would be times when a glimpse of light would protract my own thoughts of bankruptcy into the distance. However, the realisation was never too far round the corner and the reminders were always there to fuel concern.
During the time of this unhappiness my view of Miss Piggy’s position was somewhat clouded by my own troubles. Whilst I recognised that Miss Piggy’s needs were not being fulfilled by our relationship I felt there was little more I could offer. No money limited our social opportunities and continuous arguments stemmed my thoughts of marriage and children. We found ourselves in a vicious circle to say the least.
The breakdown of our relationship had more consequence than simply losing a loved one. The resentment built up by Miss Piggy also meant I lost a friend. To think I pushed away someone who loved me so much really hurts. I can't understand why it has turned out this way but the continuous arguments made it less difficult to accept.
Shortly after we split Miss Piggy found a new flat and moved out her possessions. With her she took the two piece suite, dining room table and chairs, microwave and the pictures on the wall. I simply cannot afford to replace these and the house looks bare. Yet another unexpected effect of bankruptcy. Oh well, I guess sitting on sun chairs it is – at least until I get back on my own two feet.
The break-up was amicable and I have come to realise that Miss Piggy and I are two different people and probably would not have worked anyway. I couldn’t be more sorry for the trouble I have caused her yet there is certainly no point in blaming myself for the break up. I just hope she doesn’t bear the resentment forever.
One concern for Miss Piggy was people finding out in her workplace. If the truth were known this angered me somewhat but I had to respect that each person does have their own values. Shouting about the bankruptcy to everyone was not something I was about to do. While I am happy to talk openly about it I think Miss Piggy was concerned that as a couple we may be looked down upon. This simply isn’t the case and besides – how were her colleagues going to find out? I didn’t even see a notice in the paper!
Preparing for Bankruptcy
However, my predicament of bankruptcy soon began to conflict with Miss Piggy’s needs of fun, marriage and children. An almost inevitable torrent of confrontations followed with neither person able or willing to give way and both feeling completely unsupported by each other. There was only one outcome for the sake of both our sanities.
I will be the first to admit that during the period of the failing business and the proceeding bankruptcy I was relatively unsupportive to Miss Piggy and her needs. Doing what I thought was right, I paid less attention to her and more attention to the business. After all, the last thing I wanted to do was put her through bankruptcy.
There would be times when I would shelter Miss Piggy in fear of more panic and confrontation and there would be times when a glimpse of light would protract my own thoughts of bankruptcy into the distance. However, the realisation was never too far round the corner and the reminders were always there to fuel concern.
During the time of this unhappiness my view of Miss Piggy’s position was somewhat clouded by my own troubles. Whilst I recognised that Miss Piggy’s needs were not being fulfilled by our relationship I felt there was little more I could offer. No money limited our social opportunities and continuous arguments stemmed my thoughts of marriage and children. We found ourselves in a vicious circle to say the least.
The breakdown of our relationship had more consequence than simply losing a loved one. The resentment built up by Miss Piggy also meant I lost a friend. To think I pushed away someone who loved me so much really hurts. I can't understand why it has turned out this way but the continuous arguments made it less difficult to accept.
Shortly after we split Miss Piggy found a new flat and moved out her possessions. With her she took the two piece suite, dining room table and chairs, microwave and the pictures on the wall. I simply cannot afford to replace these and the house looks bare. Yet another unexpected effect of bankruptcy. Oh well, I guess sitting on sun chairs it is – at least until I get back on my own two feet.
The break-up was amicable and I have come to realise that Miss Piggy and I are two different people and probably would not have worked anyway. I couldn’t be more sorry for the trouble I have caused her yet there is certainly no point in blaming myself for the break up. I just hope she doesn’t bear the resentment forever.
One concern for Miss Piggy was people finding out in her workplace. If the truth were known this angered me somewhat but I had to respect that each person does have their own values. Shouting about the bankruptcy to everyone was not something I was about to do. While I am happy to talk openly about it I think Miss Piggy was concerned that as a couple we may be looked down upon. This simply isn’t the case and besides – how were her colleagues going to find out? I didn’t even see a notice in the paper!
Preparing for Bankruptcy
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